Good manners are something that seem to be disappearing from many areas of today’s society. Here is a reminder of the polite way to handle 40 common situations.
Manners in the Office
Don’t order in food that is laden with garlic and onions.
Don’t manicure nails at the office desk.
Manners in Public
When a couple approaches a revolving door, the man goes first to get the door moving.
Always remove hats when in elevators.
When riding an escalator, keep right and pass on the left.
Don’t cycle or rollerblade on the sidewalk.
Manners in Restaurants
Arrive five to 10 minutes before the time of the reservation.
Be cordial and concise with wait staff.
Wear appropriate dress for the style of restaurant.
Leave an acceptable tip.
Manners while Watching Movies
Turn cell phones off.
Limit conversation with companions.
Wait until the credits are rolling before standing to leave.
Don’t kick the chair in front.
It is acceptable to politely ask other people not to kick.
Manners on Public Transport
Don’t litter.
Let people off a bus or train before climbing on.
It is still good manners to give up a seat to the elderly, disabled or pregnant.
When flying, the rule is one armrest per passenger.
Signal a desire for a peaceful trip by wearing sunglasses or opening a book.
When cycling, use hand signals and cycle lanes.
Manners with Clothing
Remove stockings that have large runs in them. It is preferable to be cold than to wear them in public.
If a shoe heel breaks, take both shoes off until a replacement is available.
Bra straps, slips and band aids should always be hidden from view.
Manners in Conversation
Think before speaking.
Periods of silence are acceptable.
Don’t boast about children, grandchildren, possessions or anything else.
Avoid sensitive subjects such as politics, child rearing and money.
Manners on the Telephone
Try and keep calls between 8am and 10pm on weekdays. On Saturdays 10am to 10pm is acceptable and Sundays, 12 noon to 10pm.
Put cell phones on silent in public.
Don’t discuss personal problems over the phone, in public or at work.
Manners at Social Engagements
Teeth picking in public is a big no-no.
Call ahead if going to be late – and endeavour not to be late.
Don’t snap chewing gum and blow bubbles in public.
Manners when Lending and Borrowing
It is permissible to ask for property to be returned.
Launder borrowed clothes before returning them.
Manners with Pets
Vaccuum up pet fur before entertaining guests or friends.
Don’t allow pets to dominate social gatherings. If necessary, lock them away.
Manners with Money
Don’t ask what an outfit/piece of furniture cost.
It is acceptable to check itemized bills for accuracy.
With a little effort, anyone can improve their manners and make the world a more pleasant place to live in.
Recommended reading: Manners, by Kate Spade, Simon & Schuster, 2004
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